Well, it's been the first week of my actual partner hunt, and unfortunately, no news is good news, and I have news...
I'm trying to attack on all angles and see which one is the path of least resistance. I have set up a special e-mail account for this, and sadly, 5 days later I got my first dozens of spam about MILFS in my area and I need to enlarge my penis size. Not even the good kind of spam that tries to trick me into thinking it's real.
Collarme is no hits, but I didn't think that it was going to get much anyway. The problem with Collarme is that when it comes to women, they are so flooded with responses from men that I will get lost in a flood. Same with my profile, with nothing I can really do to make is stand out other than refresh it every waking moment of the day so I'm always on top.
Craigslist has a even worse fate. I got one response from a 48 year old asking if it would be good enough if he wore panties. Not to much later after I gave him piece of my mind, since he failed to meet ANY of what I was looking for, my post was flagged.
FetLife has proven to be the most successful so far. I have me one person, but unfortunately wasn't really local. Never the less, we did have some phone play, which was amazing. But after that we've both not have had the time due to scheduling conflicts.
PlentyofFish was my back-up choice for when craigslist failed, but it has been the option I have pursued heavily since I started it, just because I can have a lot more choice of those who are local. However, it's not on the BDSM spectrum, and it's a dating site, so looking for a partner alone causes you to be not for half the people on there. And I'm too honest to try to goad someone, so it's really the most tamest choice.
My plans for this week are too stay the course and see if any of these develops, or if I should try different venues.
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